The ‘higher power’ and relationships…
Image via Wikipedia “A definition of Interdependence is, “a reciprocal relation between interdependent entities.” The key word here is: “reciprocal”. Interdependence can be thought of as a...
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Image via Wikipedia One sweltering summer day, I sought escape from the heat at a nearby beach. Lying there with my lemonade, I looked at all the people soaking up the sun. No matter how many people...
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Surrender... “Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him. Step Three of Al-Anon; Surrendering to a Power greater than ourselves is how we become...
View ArticleFacing Our Dark Side
Image by dawneday via Flickr Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. — Step Four of Al-Anon By the time we get to the Fourth of the Twelve Steps, we are ready to face our darker...
View ArticlePractice Detachment
Melody Beattie shares this on detachment today… “‘My husband is using cocaine,” a woman said. “He won’t listen to me when I tell him to stop. So, how about this? I’ll pop the movie Blow, about cocaine...
View ArticleCrazy People Can Make You Crazy
“He’s making me crazy I don’t understand. Why would someone say they were going to do one thing, then do something so different from what they say? He looks so good and talks so good. His promises...
View ArticleThe Gift of Readiness
Melody Beattie writes: “Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.” Step Six of Al-Anon. We progress to the Sixth Step by working diligently, to the best of our ability, on...
View ArticleLetting Go of Self-Doubt
A second shot of Melody Beattie for today: A married woman who had recently joined Al Anon called me one afternoon. She worked part-time as a registered nurse, had assumed all the responsibilities for...
View ArticleThe Gift of Readiness
Melody Beattie writes: “Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.” Step Six of Al-Anon. We progress to the Sixth Step by working diligently, to the best of our ability, on...
View ArticleA Better Way
The following is an long excerpt from Melody Beattie’s book ‘Codependent no more’ that I stumbled across in my morning reading today: DETACHMENT It (detachment) is not detaching from the person whom we...
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